Indlela Ekuphilwa Ngayo Ezindaweni Zasemakhaya

Ukukhuliswa kwengane emphakathini noma endaweni kwakungabi umsebenzi wabazali baleyongane kuphela kodwa okwesigodi sonke. Obaba uma besebenza kude namakhaya babeshiya amakhosikazi nezingane ekhaya bahambe isikhathi eside, bekujwayeleke ukuthi babuye ngezikhathi zePhasika noma ngoKhisimusi noma uma kushoniwe ekhaya kwakuya ngokuthi usebenza kuphi. Isikhathi esiningi kwakuba ngomama ababevakashela obaba lapho babesebenza khona. Ubudlelwano phakathi kukababa nezingane babungekho ngenxa yalokhu, ngesinye isikhathi kwakutholakala ukuthi ubaba uhamba ekhaya engazi nokuthi usekhulelise umkakhe ezwe esekuhambeni abuye ingane isikhulile njalonjalo.

Omama babeqinisekisa ukuthi ekhaya kulinyiwe futhi nemfuyo ikhona ukuze bakwazi ukuphila. Kwakubayinjabulo ekhaya uma kuzalwa ingane yomfana ngoba phela yayizoqhubeka yakhe umuzi kayise uma eseshonile. Esikhathini sakudala kwakwaziwa ukuthi umsebenzi womuntu wesifazane ukubheka ikhaya akhulise nezingane

Ukuzalwa kwengane

Izibhedlela zingakabikho umuntu wesifazane okhulelwe wayebelethiswa ogogo bendawo uma sekufike isikhathi soklufika kwengane. Bese kubhalwa incwadi iye kubaba aziswa ukuthi uthole mtwana muni, nalapho kusazoyiwa kwamakhelwane kuyofunwa umuntu okuwuye obabhalelayo uma ingakabikhona ingane efundayo kulowomuzi. Ingane ezelwe yayincela ibele ize ibe neminyaka emibili noma emithathu. Yayikhishwa ebeleni ngencumbe noma ngomdoko wamabele ogaywe etsheni noma amahewu idle nokunye ke ukudla iye ijwayele. Ibigqokiswa noma yini ukuvikela amakhaza, uma kubalele ibizihambela nqunu. Amatshitshi namajongozi abebhinca esinqeni kuthi ngenhla, kuthi umuntu osethole umntwana ubefaka ibhayi elifihla amadolo abophe nendwangu emabeleni.

Ekwaluseni

Ingane ikhule ishawa hhayi umzali wayo kuphela nanoma yimuphi umuntu omdala ubewumzali kuye, uma ehlangana naye onile ubemshaya lapho, bekungalindwa abazali bakhe umntwana, njengokuthi uma kufohle izinkomo zakomakhelwane phambi kwakhe bekushawa lowo noma kungezona ezakubo lezonkomo zingalusiwe uye ubeshawa ngoba kuthiwa ubengazishayi ngani izinkomo. Uma ufika ekhaya ububuzwa ukuthi bekwenzenjani mhlawumbe bakuphinde bakushaye, Uma kade umfana elwa wahlulwa abafowabo bazomshaya bethi uvuma ukuhlulwa omunye nangakusasa uzoqhubeka alwe mhlawumbe aze amhlule lowo. Kwakuthi uma umfana egula ekwaluseni bekungashiwo ukuthi akaye kolala bebezama amakhathakhatha aze alulame, umunyana yiwo awawubasiza mebephethwe umkhuhlane, ezikhathini zakudala yayingekho imitholampilo. Imidlalo ebebeyenza babebhukuda noma bakhe izinqola baphule izihlahla bahlanganise, bekugibela oyedwa kulenqola abanye baphushe kushintshanwe, amasondo kube amathanga abawathathe emasimini asale ngesikhathi kade kuvunwa noma badlale umshushuluzo engezinqa endaweni eyehlelayi enotshani, noma bazingele izinyoni nezimbiba.

Amantombazane wona ayelusa uma bengekho abafana kubo. Imisebenzi ejwayelekile yamantombazane ukukha amanzi, kunezikhathi zokukha amanzi hhayi noma inini ayekhiwa ekuseni noma ntambama, ngoba amini ayesengcoliswe izinkomo nabawashayo. Bebefundiswa nokugaya etsheni umbila noma amabele nokupheka nokuhlanza umuzi nokunye. Uma kukhona umuzi onomcimbi amantombazane asendaweni ayahlangana azolekelela ngokukha amanzi nokunye.

Umfana uma engakasebenzi ubeba nalo ihembe elilodwa nebhulukwana aliphiwe ubhuti wakhe noma ubaba wakhe, nezimbadada azikhandele zona noma azikhandelwe abangani bakhe ekwaluseni. Intombi yona ibiba namabhayi amasha ngoba isinesoka elaziwayo bese lithengelwe impahla, vele bekungabalulekile ukuswenka ngalesiyasikhathi bona bebezihlobela ngobuhlalu nangemvunulo yesikhumba kwabesilisa asebesebenza nezintombi esezinamasoka asebenzayo, kodwa futhi esimise iduku kwaziwa endaweni.

Isikole

Bebeya esikoleni sebekhulile mhlawumbe umuntu eneshumi leminyaka noma ngaphezulu eyoqala, uma eyintombazane athi angakwazi ukubhala igama lakhe, nokubhalela ubaba wakhe esemsebenzini ayekiswe ngoba bekuthiwa uzogana bakhalele izimali zabo bemfundisa, umfana yena ubeqhubeka nokufunda, kanti omunye ubeshomana nontanga asiyeke isikole eqe ekhaya ayosebenza, kubo bezwe ngesikade ukuthi akasekho usematohweni. Bekunomkhuba wokuthi uma uyintombazane uzijwayeze ukuhlala ecansini ngoba uma kukekwafika umuntu wangaphandle noma ezidlulela wakubona uhleli esigqikini noma ebhentshini ubaba wakho ubehlawula enkosini ukuthi awuhloniphi uqojama esitulweni, noma uwumfana umithisile ungakashadi ubuhlawula enkosini ugeze izintombi zendawo kuyima uzohlawula lapho umithise khona. Futhi bekuyichilo uma uwumfana ubonakale uphuza noma uphethe ugwayi.